The Ultimate Soulmate Tarot Spread

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The Ultimate Soulmate Tarot Spread ~ Who is your Highest and Best, Divine Soulmate

This spread is used in the Popular ‘Linking Soulmates’ Course as it acts as a Call Out to your Soulmate and looks at every aspect of your ‘Finding Your Soulmate’ Journey. In the Soulmate Course, you also learn to remove any blocks you might have in your soulmate journey, using a separate spread called the ‘What is blocking me’ Spread. When I guide my students of the Soulmate course, I look at their cards in the blocking me spread with the cards they get in the Ultimate soulmate spread. The Students learn to remove their blocks using Command prayers and Meditation. Below this spread, is the Command prayer to attract in your Divine Soulmate.

Card 1: Situation.
Card 2 : How can I best attract a soulmate.
Card 3: What the seeker really desires (what they want in a relationship).
Card 4: What is blocking me and how do I overcome it.
Card 5: Family and friend connection with Soulmate. Look for court cards. Major Arcana cards denote you will meet through destiny rather than through other people.
Card 6: How will we meet.
Card 7: How will I recognise my soulmate.
Card 8: Where is my Soulmate.
Card 9: When will we meet.
Card 10: Who is my Soulmate, this is the most revealing card.
Card 11: Destiny of relationship. If you get a negative card here you can change your destiny by changing beliefs and thoughts about yourself and about your relationship.

Command prayer to meet your highest and best, most compatible, divine soulmate.

Repeat this command prayer at least 3 times. This is for your subconscious to accept that you have made this command prayer and it will then accept the manifestations as real which is very important when Manifesting.

It is my intent and my command to meet and connect with my highest and best, most compatible, divine soul mate, and in a way that promotes a lifelong commitment filled with joy and happiness, now, forever, and always, in the highest and best way, thank you, it is done, it is done, it is done.


  1. Hi,thank you for this amazing spread! Here are the cards I’ve pulled, any help would be very much appreciated!
    1. The moon
    2. Ace of wands
    3. The sun
    4. Knight of wands
    5. 4 of wands
    6. Ace of swords
    7. 7 of cups
    8. 7 of pentacles
    9. 10 of swords
    10. The tower
    11. 2 of pentacles. .

  2. Hi, I will do this layout in your soulmate reading. 🙂 I also add the where are you blocked spread, and then the soulmate spread reading, in your case, this layout, follows. Then there is a timing of event at the end. 🙂

  3. You are getting a lot of 7s in this reading, including in who is your soulmate where you get the tower (which is card number 16=1+6=7) and this tells me there will be a spiritual connection with your soulmate that you most likely will feel before you even meet. I also think there will be a big decision to make before being with your soulmate and you would have to most likely deal with a big move and lifestyle change. This will happen some time in the future as 10 of swords speaks of more long-term future, however, you could change the timing of events by working on your fears around being in a soulmate relationship. In your case, you got Knight of wands, which can mean you there is a block in whether or not you believe it is possible for you to be in a soulmate relationship. Once you remove this block, it will be a lot easier to manifest, and you will be able to manifest your soulmate sooner rather than later.

  4. Thank you so much for this insight! How many years away is the 10 of swords? What does the 7 of pentacles suggest about where they are? Thank you again.

  5. Can anyone help me with mine? I’ll appreciate it if you can help, thanks. Some I am certain about but I’m confused about certain cards, like two of swords as a connection or page of swords as how I will recognize my soulmate and five of cups for how the relationship will turn out. I see so much good as well as so much bad and so it confuses me.

    I got:
    Eight of Pentacles
    Nine of Wands
    The Sun
    The Star
    Two of Swords
    The Magician
    Page of Swords
    Knight of Swords
    The Chariot
    Five of Cups.

    If anyone can help, I’d appreciate it.

  6. Hi, Ashley. I feel you could meet this person online. Don’t worry too much about the 5 of cups as it is a minor arcana card and minor arcana cards are outcomes that can be changed when we change our thoughts and mental attitudes. It could be some hiccups in the relationship, but it doesn’t mean you will end up breaking up.

  7. Okay thanks. Although I’ll have to change my mind about online dating. I’ve tried it many times before and blind dates (set up by friends) and I always freeze up. It happened just a year ago and guys never call back. I’m fine talking to them online but meeting them for a first time isn’t easy. I’ve always been more comfortable with people I already know.

  8. Thank you, I appreciate the insight. Online dating was never for me, but perhaps I could always try it again. I always freeze up meeting new people like that, even if we’ve talked online first. I’ve never had a second date from online dating before. I might try this spread again in a few days just to clarify it, and maybe try a blockage spread I know of. Not sure if it’s similar to yours but I have one I use for other things.

  9. Baby steps 🙂 One way you will know you have met your soulmate is that your soulmate will feel like someone you have known forever and you are just continuing your never ending journey together, one that has begun many many lifetimes ago.

  10. Yes, please do and share what you get. This is a block spread the students of the ‘linking soulmates’ are using: 1. fearing abandonment, 2. fearing rejection 3. financial blocks 4. fear around safety 5. lack of self-love. 6. it’s impossible.

    These are the main 6 blocks in connecting and being with a soulmate. Let me know how you go, and please share your cards and I will help you interpret.

  11. Wonderful spread Inger!! Thought I’ll share my reading and get your thoughts on the cards I pulled. It will be well appreciated!! xo

    Card 1: The Strength
    Card 2: Ace of Pentacles
    Card 3: 5 of Pentacles
    Card 4: Page of Pentacles
    Card 5: 6 of Pentacles
    Card 6: Page of Swords
    Card 7: The Fool
    Card 8: 5 of Wands
    Card 9: The High Priestess
    Card 10: King of Pentacles
    Card 11: The Empress

  12. Hi. You could meet through work and it could be work you feel you are not completely getting the recognition for as this is something you are very natural at and you are doing everyone’s work for them. However, the cards indicate this as the situation you will meet your soulmate through. Your soulmate is King of pentacles so that is someone abundant, with a high-paying career, family oriented, and grounded.


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